It’s a moment awaited with bated breath and exciting anticipation…a moment of ultimate fulfillment as a woman…It is a moment of “Love Realized”! It is a moment when you can leave the rest of the world behind to be in your man’s arms! But do you actually leave the rest of the world behind? Don’t your plus size insecurities and awkwardness create hindrances amidst those passionate nights of love? Don’t you constantly worry about what your partner is thinking? Doesn’t your passion get restricted with the thought that you will not be able to satisfy your partner?
Come on girl…you can do much better! With all the love and passion you have in your heart, why let those extra pounds take an upper hand on your love life!
Why be so afraid of your body? Why ruin the moment? All you need is to embrace your sexuality and be confident about yourself in the bedroom.
Sex for a curvy woman is very important. The importance heightens because making love is also about boosting confidence. And when you are confident, not only can you do all the things you want to do, you can also have the best sex life which you deserve like every other girl.
As with the rest of the world, it applies to you as well: that “Good sex is all about being confident about yourself”.
And to give your confidence quite a bit of a boost,
Follow these simple tips
Set The Mood: Take charge of setting up the mood. You can now take control of a lot of things, like selecting the light. The right light can help you a lot in easing your insecurities. Opt for soft candle lights: they provide enough light to be intimate with your partner and enough darkness to hide your flaws.
The right clothing: Don’t hide in your clothes. But don’t bare it all just to be sexy. There are many clothing options which will not make you overexposed but will be sexy enough to get your man in the mood for love. Play into fantasies. Try wearing your man’s shirt with a pair of heels. You can also opt for lingerie to spark the fire in your man as well as hide your problem areas.
Don’t over-think it: Don’t keep stressing yourself. Your partner is not looking for your flaws. In fact, he is not paying any attention to all those facets about which you are so worked up. Over-thinking the situation will not do you any good; it will, on the other hand, push him away…instead, go with the flow and let yourself be carried away. This will wash away all your insecurities. Just relax and enjoy yourself.
And the most important thing you should know is that
If he is there with you, he is totally into you
Credit Source:Amazon ImagesYour sex appeal lies in your charm and power of attraction. In order to seduce your man you need to exploit your sexuality and shine in front of him. This makes one thing clear; your body shape, color or hair color is not an important factor in your sexuality.
Your man is attracted to you because of your nature. He is aware of your flaws and yet he is turned on by you. He is in the mood for love and nothing else matters to him right now.
For further and professional help, flip through the pages of Big Big Love, Revised: A Sex and Relationships Guide for People of Size (and Those Who Love Them). It is a wonderful handbook on relationships, sexuality and confidence which has nothing to do with the numbers on your bathroom scale. The book is inclusive of
- Interviews with body-acceptance activists, health coaches, psychologists
- Hundreds of quotes from “fat folks”
- Tips for taking your clothes off in the bedroom
- Tips for long term relationships
All in all, this book will help you deal with almost every issue you are afraid to face in your bedroom. No wonder, it has notched up a healthy rating of 4 out of 5 stars at Amazon.com. You might want to read it. For that you need to visit Amazon.com.
And don’t keep your man waiting for you for any longer! Let love shower upon you both.